Sundayitis
I've just lost my whole Naruto folder due to a glitch on my harddrive!
Damn, that included the naruto movie that i couldn't bring myself to finish (too cheesy), and the 16 naruto shippueden episodes that i've downloaded so far!
Sucks.
On the bright side, i downloaded the latest naruto episode in like 20minutes? amazing.
Imagine if i lived in someplace like taiwan where i don't have any downloading limits....
The question of the day is -
Am i allowed to oppose an relationship?
Listing reasons why that relationship doesn't look right...
- no one from the family approves.
- The girl is clearly, a tramp. Well, not the worst kind, but still.
- She never graduated from university!!!
- ok, the above point doesn't really matter, but in the context of ..she never even had a proper job!!
- Ok, you have to take in mind that she is nearly 30 and never had a proper job
- And, you have to take in mind that she never looked for one cos its "too stressful" to have a job and she can't sleep
- She is so needy that NZ$3000 of phone calls per month to satisfy her emotional needs?
- She starts living off her boyfriend like, 1 month into the relationship.
- By living off, i mean - she lives IN the home, the boyfriend buys everything for her.
- She wanted to visit the boyfriend's family, so the boyfriend paid for her AIRTICKET to that country.
- Oh, and what's more, she can't tolerate economy seats so the boyfriend bought BUSINESS CLASS tickets FOR her.
- She throws tantrums when she sees fit.
- She smokes
- She's irresponsible - can't carry out tasks. simple tasks
- She attends family dinners in pajamas. Not her own family. 2 months into the relationship!?
Can I?
Can i go ahead and say my thoughts? That i have NO respect for such a tramp? That the relationship is not right? That if they marry its our worst nightmare?
If i'm asked for my opinion then definitely i'm going to town with it.
But can i just go ahead and blast that relationship like i really want to?
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Meanwhile I'm pondering my career aspirations.
Surgery?
Anaesthetics?
Infectious Diesases?
Where do my inspirations lie?
What do I see myself as?
The pros and con's of each one...
Sigh.
Its a long long road...
Back to doing what i've been doing the whole day - reading Doraemon on my bed and falling asleep
hahahaha
hey dude, i realised i committed one of the ultimate crimes by asking you to do all the pros and cons stuff and not following up on the homework...
ReplyDeleteso...
since we are such terribly busy humanlings and can't even find the time to meet up and talk about it but instead have the time to blog and facebook - let's use the internet to our advantage!
so...
the plan: scan your sheets of paper with your pros and cons, and email them to me!
and with regards to the relationship thing.. hm.. it's a difficult situation.. often being able to see things from an "objective", external perspective, allows us to see things a bit clearer than the ppl in the relationship can. when we are genuinely concerned, we do have some duty/obligation to our friends and loved ones to let them know about some of our thoughts and concerns. it's a fine balance though, between friendly advice and thoughts and imposing one's own beliefs and values on to people who ultimately must make their own decisions and choose their own meandering paths through this thing we call life...
haha thanks brown bear
ReplyDeletei'm just revising my homework now.
Then i'll ask mammy for her scanning machine and beam off a copy right to your chocolate heart, eh?
(shit, did i just say what i said above? i must be high)
Anyway - friendly advise vs imposing my own beliefs. Very well put. That's exactly the reason why i havn't done nothing abt the situation. Cos. I don't wana interfere, and then leave up a mess for that person and leave something that i can't fix, ya know? If i create a mess i'll make damn sure i can find a solution to it!!!
Hey and don't accuse me of faceboook - i have resisted that temptation so far!!!! but not for long, thhe pressure is mounting.......